Dear Abby: Woman wonders whether to socialize with dinner group members who ignore her daughter

DEAR ABBY: For years, a group of us former co-workers has been going out to dinner once a month. My daughter is part of the group and is also the youngest. Lately, she has been dismissed and ignored by two members of our group (there are six of us).
Being her mother, I am hurt by how they have treated her. She has stopped going out with us, but I’m uncertain if I should also stop. They have been nothing but nice to me. I’m lost on what to do anymore — to go, or not to go? — HURT IN THE MIDWEST
DEAR HURT: Have you asked these two former co-workers why they made your daughter feel unwelcome? Their behavior was rude. Have you asked the two who were welcoming what they think about all of this? Perhaps you (and your daughter) would feel more comfortable socializing with only them. That said, I do not think you should drop out of the group if you enjoy their company.
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